Have you noticed that communication between you and your partner is going nowhere?

Have you been stuck on a communication level and cannot move up from there? How many times have you spoken disrespectfully to each other, have been impatient and have misunderstood each other?

 

Are you frustrated and disappointed because you can't discuss anything properly without conflict and fighting?

Do you want to get over it and communicate like a mature person?

Would you like to set your boundaries, say NO without the conversation devolving into an argument?

Do you want to discuss important things and live in a harmonious relationship?

 

Then this workbook was designed for you.

 

Communication and words, if used correctly, have a wonderful effect on tired, sick relationships.

Assertive communicators treat others with respect and what they say commands respect.They enable decisions by putting the two parties on the same page to solve their problems as a team.

Let me show you a simple example.

• Non-assertive: I can't believe you still haven't cut the grass!

• Assertive: I noticed that the grass hasn't been cut yet. Could you please arrange it as soon as possible?

 

The difference is astounding! No threats, guilt tripping, accusations and insulting each other.

Clear, to the point, respectful and purposeful!

 

I created this workbook so that many couples can save their relationship and find joy in each other as they did at the beginning of their relationship. In this case, communication is a remedy that I warmly recommend to everyone.